Rebuilding Trust in a Marriage by McDolly Suellen & Publications OrangePen

Author:McDolly, Suellen & Publications, OrangePen
Language: eng
Format: epub
Published: 2022-07-27T00:00:00+00:00

Chapter 13: Conclusions

When two people meet in a relationship with an element of passion that sustains them and their union ends in marriage, they may not be aware of what is to follow. Sometimes they may have difficulty keeping everything together or reconciling. Love is messy and infidelity is even more disorderly. To ensure normality again, it is necessary to have something to hold onto. Some infidelities resolve quickly, but some may have difficulty ending. This reluctance must be worked out. People who want to rebuild the relationship after the unfaithfulness are on a hard journey. At the time of being destroyed, you don't trust what the unfaithful says. You lose confidence in others and in yourself. It is a loss of a partner and a loss of self. Try to find a purpose and never lose hope. If the person left you without giving you the answers you deserved, embrace it. Feel hurt and move on. A healthy and safe future awaits you.

Having a relationship without criticism, without resentment, without cheating is just a place where you two will be happy to be together and support each other. Each of us should try to reach that place in our relationships where there is complete honesty and space to breathe. If you feel that being honest is difficult or unworkable for you, there are a few things you can do to significantly increase the amount of honesty and enjoy all the good things in your relationship. The first is to be honest with yourself and to yourself. The relationship you have with others is a reflection of yours with yourself. If you want something in life and you think you can't tell your spouse, maybe because they may not approve, then move that thought away; just ask yourself what you really want here. Imagine it theoretically, and it becomes really clear. So, imagine the worst thing that can happen if you tell your partner what you're hiding. You may think they will get angry. Maybe they will or not. But if they get angry, they will have to deal with it and the chances are they will get over it. Getting angry is something that can be addressed. So, you have to understand what the best thing is that could happen. You can actually get what you want and share happiness with your partner. An example of this is when a husband in therapy revealed that he wanted to go to a nudist beach and go scuba diving and sunbathing. He felt embarrassed to say it out loud because he feared his wife would judge him. So, it is really necessary to provide total honesty. The next step is to create an environment of trust. You decide to never make your spouse feel bad about what they say or do. Don't judge them for their thoughts and feelings. Allow them to make mistakes. The last step is to guarantee total honesty from this point onwards.

I wish you the best of luck, and I hope this has helped your soul to heal and your relationship to become stronger.

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